135 is not a $2$-clan because the induced subgraph on 135 does not have diameter at most 2 (it is not connected, so the diameter is infinite). 135 forms a 2-clique because it is a set in the graph where the pairwise distances between the points is at most 2. $k$-clique looks at sets inside the whole graph. $k$-clan looks at induced subgraphs.