Concerning your questions
1. Expectation is defined as an integral in the continuous case. Now you have discrete random variables. The discrete analogon of the integral is the sum (actually vice versa, i.e. the integral denotes an infite sum with infinitesimal (instead of integer valued) increment). So, for random variables with **discrete** values you will have sums, and for random variables that take values in **continuous** intervals you will have integrals.
2. Write the characteristic function of the binomial as follows $$(pe^{it}+(1-p))^n=\left(1+\frac{np(e^{it}-1)}{n}\right)^n$$ Denote $np$ with $λ$ and use the fact that $$\lim_{n \to \infty}\left(1+\frac xn\right)^n=e^x$$ to conclude as required.