I’m kind of guessing that the “collar” doesn’t serve a structural function and is instead just a fancy washer which makes wheel building easier because the nipple can’t drop into the inside of the rim.
It probably failed because of galvanic corrosion which makes it likely that the others are in a similar state.
You could probably replace it with a simple, normal washer (or the fancy DT Swiss PHR washers), but expect the others to fail soon too.