While $2$ certainly has many predecessors, the point is that none of them is an _immediate_ predecessor.
The proof proceeds by contradiction: Supposing that $n R 2$ is the immediate predecessor of $2$. Then $n R (n+2)$ and $(n+2) R 2$. Therefore $n$ is not the immediate predecessor and it does not exist.
The reason why this type of element is called a "limit element" is maybe explained better using fractions:
In the set $\\{ \frac{-1}{n} \\} \cup \\{ 0 \\} $, it is more obvious that $0$ is the "limit element". We see that $\frac{-1}{n}$ is _getting ever closer_ to the limit, _without ever getting there_.
It is in this sense that "limit elements" come into play. It takes a bit of time to get used to them (there are more complex examples, like the first uncountable ordinal $\omega_1$) but by working through some more examples you will surely get there!