For the first question, probably the simplest way to understand this in a general setting is to use induction.
Set your $E$ to be $$ E=\left(\begin{array}{c|c}1 & 0 \\\ \hline e & I\end{array}\right)$$ where $e$ is a column vector and $I$ is an identity matrix of the same dimension. Now if $$ L=\left(\begin{array}{c|c}1 & 0 \\\ \hline 0 & M\end{array}\right) $$ is a matrix partitioned consistently as $E$, then $$ EL=\left(\begin{array}{c|c}1 & 0 \\\ \hline e & M\end{array}\right) $$ That is, the multiplication with $E$ does not change the trailing block $M$ of the matrix $L$ and simply adds the column $e$ of $E$ to the corresponding block of $L$.