So, you're saying that $A\mapsto RAR$ is a bijection, namely that $I\mapsto eIe$ and $A\mapsto RAR$ are mutually inverse.
Then $e(RBR\cap RCR)e=eRBRe\cap eRCRe=B\cap C=\\{0\\}\lhd eRe$ implies that applying the second map to both sides will yield $RBR\cap RCR=\\{0\\}\lhd R$.