So the definition says: $$\lim_{x \to a}f(x) = L$$ means: for all $\epsilon >0$, there exists a $\delta >0$ such that $$0<|x - a| < \delta \Rightarrow |f(x) - L| < \epsilon $$
To understand this definition, you have to know about quantifiers: (for all, there exists). In other words, If for every $\epsilon$, you are able to find a suitable $\delta$, then this proves the limit of $f$ is $L$. When you see in a statement, the word (THERE EXISTS), That means you need to find, to construct and so proving its existence. In this case, you have to find a $\delta$.