You can't split the quantifier as you did. That's where the problems begin.
$$\
eg (\exists x (x\in S \wedge x \
otin T))\
ot\equiv \
eg (\exists x (x\in S)\wedge \exists x (x\
otin T)) $$
The existentially quantified statement $\exists x (x \in S \land x \
otin T)$ asserts that there exists some $x$ for which _two things_ are true about that one specific $x$, $P(x): x\in S$ and $Q(x): x \
otin T$.
When you split the clause into two existentially quantified statements, you are asserting merely that there exists something, say $x$, for which $P(x)$ is true, and there exists something (perhaps something else, we'll call it $y$) for which $Q(y)$ is true. Those aren't equivalent statements.