The inconvenient truth is that most of the time when a bike is having issues like this, facing and chasing the shell solves everything, revealing that shell tolerance was the problem all along. If it doesn't, you can then and only then know it's a part quality issue. (Even then, "know" is overstating, because it's possible for a shell to be bad enough that piloted taps can't fix it. But that is an outlier situation.)
Some none-zero amount of added friction when tightened is normal. It wouldn't be reasonable to expect it to be looser or literally unaffected. But the effect is usually negligible for a good BB in a good shell.