1. I see it most often spelled out as as in etc.
2. For me it has a rough, slightly negative, rude connotation (e.g. used by ruffians and ), or the older generation that speak their opinions freely). It is also more prevalent in males than females.
3. I've seen but not .
4. Can be used in the positive to show emphasis (also used by above) e.g. etc etc.
5. If there is a name, I don't know it..