Lets do part $1$ "formally":
If $m=1$, and study $n=1,2,\cdots$, the only non-zero value is at $n=1$ where $a_{nm}=1$.
For any other fixed $m>1$, if we run through the sum $\sum_{n=1}^\infty a_{nm}$, exactly two values of $n$ will have non-zero values, namely, $n=m-1$ and $n=m$ with values $-1$ and $1$ respectively so they cancel each other yielding a contribution of $0$.
So all these sums are $0$. Thus $$\sum_{m=1}^\infty \sum_{n=1}^\infty a_{nm}=\sum_{n=1}^\infty a_{n1} + \sum_{m=2}^\infty \sum_{n=1}^\infty a_{nm}=1+0=1$$
Now try doing the other part by yourself.