Long distance relationships... You guys have been asking for
this video for a while, so I had to bring this out,
on how to make a man miss you in a long-distance relationship. Now, whether you are transitioning to one, or whether you are just
starting out in one, this is how to do exactly that. Hey, it's Mark here, founder of
Make Him Yours. I'll see you in just a second. So you guys have been asking for
this one for quite some time. Long-distance relationships and how do you make
the guy miss you in a long-distance relationship. Well, today I've got six things for you that will make a man want you unbelievably, from as much distance as
he can possibly be away. The first thing though guys is something that surprises,
I think, a lot of women and something that you
may not like to hear. To make a man miss you in a
long-distance relationship, the first thing you need
is an end point. There has to be a point in
the future where you are going to see each other again,
or where there is a plan for a visit, or where there is going to be some physical
connection between the two of you. If you're in a long-distance
relationship or going into one, you're in one of two positions.
You're either transitioning into one from an in-person relationship, where you have to be apart
for whatever reason, or you're just starting out in one,
with someone you met online. Either way though, guys,
you have to have an end date. This is the part you might not like.
If you don't have an end date, you're better off not committing,
or not staying committed. That means if you met someone online, but you have no current plans
to meet in person, you're better off not going
exclusive to that guy. It's the old saying, if you cage a bird,
all it wants to do is fly away. But if you let it run free,
it wants to come back. That guy is constantly going to be thinking, "Who is this high-value woman and why is
she so not concerned with caging me in?" and that guy is going to want to see you
and wonder about you, and think about you. And if you're transitioning to a
long-distance relationship, so if your partner is moving away,
but there's no future plans for you guys to get back together
and be in the same location, you're better off breaking up. And I know that sounds extreme, but if there's no plans for
the two of you to meet again, forcing things to go long-distance is simply gonna slowly but surely run
that connection into the ground. Whereas if you finish it now,
you leave the door open, you leave incredibly positive memories
for the both of you, and when the time is right again, you give the best chance for things to
come back together in the future. Now, the next thing, guys, is you wanna use the one massive
advantage that you have in a long-distance relationship
that normal couples do not have... Time. Time is the one thing you have more
of when you're long-distance, that you wouldn't have quite as much
of if you're in-person together. And you have to use that time. So when you have this extra time by going long-distance or
starting out long-distance, you have time to work on yourself
and chase your own goals, you have time to do the things that maybe you weren't doing as much of when
the two of you were together in person. You have time to put into friends, you
have time to chase your own dreams. You've gotta use that time, because
being long-distance means that you don't have the same physical
connection, physical time together, and you wanna build up yourself to be the most attractive person
you can for that guy, because that's what's gonna
make him miss you. So use that time. You don't need to pretend
to be unavailable, you don't need to be mysterious,
like some coaches will tell you, you don't need to wait
to reply to his texts, or not answer his calls, or any of
this manipulative rubbish. You just need to use the time you have
in a really healthy and positive way. That way, when you do connect with the guy,
he's gonna see that you'd been using it, and he's gonna miss you. Alright, number three, guys, for making him miss
you in a long-distance relationship is you have to be able
to make yourself happy. You can't rely on the person
who's long-distance to be your source of happiness. Now,
this applies to any relationship. You never want the person you're with
to be the sole source of your happiness. But particularly if you're transitioning from being together to a
long-distance relationship, that person makes you happy.
That's why you're with them. It's not your sole source, but that's
why we love relationships. The person we're with, to some extent,
is a source of some of our happiness. But when you go long-distance, that person's not gonna be around
as much anymore, and you can't rely on them for the same amount of happiness that
they used to bring to your life. You have to take more of a single mindset,
in that "I'm gonna make myself happy." But it doesn't mean you're breaking up,
it just means that you are going to become more
responsible for your own happiness, and you're gonna understand
that it's more on you. That way, you're not gonna
need it from them, and that's gonna come across in all your calls, in all
your contacts with him, because you're not gonna
give off that needy vibe where you're expecting him
to make you happy. You're gonna be that source for yourself.
The next thing is number four, you also have to be your own
source of self-assurance. Long-distance relationships are probably
some of the most testing relationships when it comes to handling
things like jealousy, handling things like insecurity and worry
that he may look over at someone else. You have to be your own source for that. If you use your calls just
to seek his reassurance, your calls are gonna become a drain, and eventually that's gonna
grind away at the relationship. So when you transition to long-distance
or when you start out there, number three and number four, you have to be your own source of happiness to a much greater extent, and you have to be your
own source of reassurance to a much greater extent. Alright, the next thing is really
important, guys. If you want a man to miss you
in a long-distance relationship, this is fundamental. You always want your calls
to feel good and be a source of positivity. Now, this isn't to say
that you can't have a bad day, like you would in a
normal relationship, and where you might need
his support for a day, but when you're talking a few times a week
on the phone or on Skype, you don't want ever call to be
a negative experience for him, just as you wouldn't want it to be for you. You want to give the best
parts of a relationship over. So as soon as your calls
or as soon as your contact starts to become a chore for him
rather than something he enjoys, that's when you're in a lot of trouble. You're being your own
source of happiness now, you're being your own
source of reassurance. Most of your interactions you're
going to be feeling good and you're gonna be grateful for him,
and positive, and excited to talk with him and share with your boyfriend about
what's been happening with you. Remember this, the more you can provide an amazing,
positive experience for him, the more he's gonna look
forward to your calls, and miss you when he's
not on calls with you. Number six, and this is
the fundamentals of how to make a man miss you in
a long-distance relationship, is you wanna be a source of the
exact same boyfriend benefits that a man would get by
being with you in person. Support and love. There's lots of ways to do
this from a distance, and you wanna give that to a man
who is your boyfriend. Send him text messages that
don't require a response. Just send him a kiss emoji. Be a supporter and show him
that you're thinking of him. Be there for him when he's having a bad day, and be that source of support
and love that he can rely on. The second thing men love about
relationships is companionship, so be an incredible companion for him. On your calls, make sure you're listening
just as much as you're talking, if not more. Be that person or be his best friend, just like
you would in a relationship. Be there for him when
he needs a companion. It's not about playing hard to get,
it's not about being distant. And obviously, if he is not
appreciating your companionship and not prioritizing it,
then that's different. But you don't wanna be
playing hard to get. The distance is already there. You wanna be a great companion for him,
just like you'd be in a normal relationship. Excitement. Men love relationships because
of the excitement they provide, because they get to become a
part of your exciting world. Now, this applies just as much
in a long-distance relationship as it does in any other. Remember, you're using
the time that you have, you're using that extra time
to build yourself. Maybe you're going to dance classes,
maybe you're learning to drive race cars, maybe you're just spending
more time with your friends, but whatever you're doing,
share that world with him. Share that excitement and
bring him into it. He doesn't get to be there
to experience it, so have him there,
bring him in, show him what it's like,
and give him that experience. Men wanna be part of
a relationship with a woman whose world they can
become a part of. And your calls should be
a window to your world that he can still get access to and still be excited to
feel like he's involved in. Number four is loyalty. Men love the fact in a
relationship that they can feel safe that you're
not seeing anyone else, and they have that security. Remember that as you're using
your time well, you're gonna be meeting more people, so you can be honest if there
were people hitting on you, if there are guys that are after you. Now,
you wanna reassure him, obviously, and making sure that he knows
you're 100% loyal, but you're not gonna hide the fact that there's other guys who
are interested, and that you're having
these interactions, because that's what's going on. You're being honest about it,
and then you're reassuring him, so he gets that feeling of
"She's a high-value woman, men can see that,
but she's all mine." And the last thing, of course,
is sex on tap. You can't be there in person, which means you obviously can't
do sexual things with him, but it doesn't mean you can't give
the guy a window to that, and give him incredible sexual
experiences and connections that no other man gets
to enjoy with you. Things like sexting,
things like cheeky pictures, things like giving him a
wake-up text message where you tell him
how you woke up, and how wet you were when you woke
up just from thinking about him, or what you were thinking about
the last time you touched yourself. There's all sorts of things
you can say to him that give him that sexual
girlfriend experience from a distance. Ultimately, what you wanna
remember is this, as long as you have an end date,
or a visit date, a time when you guys are gonna
see each other in person, things can work long-distance. You wanna be your own
source of happiness, and you wanna become more
of your own source of reassurance, and that's gonna communicate
to him on your calls. Remember, you don't want
your calls to be a chore, you want them to be something
he looks forward to. And as long as they're something
he looks forward to, he's gonna miss you in the
long-distance relationship. How do you do that? You make sure you're being
as good a girlfriend and delivering the same benefits
and amazing experiences that he would get from
having a girlfriend in person. Be his supporter and his lover,
be his companion, let him into your exciting world and show him what he can
look forward to when he gets back. Be a source of loyalty
and make sure he knows that you're loyal to him, even though
you're a high-value woman. And finally, you can still give him
sexual experiences. Even if it isn't the physical
stuff in person, you can give him things and
give him incredible excitement that other men don't have access to. Well, guys, that's today's video.
I hope you enjoyed it. We're gonna have some more stuff on long-distance relationships
coming out soon. But that's the core of how to
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