use of に or で for 寄ってください as a location particle As far as I can understand about location indicates a location where something exists (as in ), but some verbs use it like and the location on which an action takes place ( as in or ) but with is used (according to the N4 preparatory book), I don't understand why, may I ask your help with this?

* As for , it's always used with . I don't know when to use .
* As for , is used in the same way as ("go to "), ("come to "), ("head to "), ("send (something) to "), etc. It's the primary particle that marks a destination.



That said, you cannot always expect a logical answer for this kind of question. You may find this interesting:

vs. - Why not the same particle?

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(By the way, whenever I see "to drop _by_ ", I can't help feeling it's counter-intuitive...)