Here is a straightforward way to find the unique focal point. From the directrix and the symmetry lines $$ 4x+3y=5, \>\>\>\>\>3x-4y=5$$
their intersection is $(\frac75, -\frac15)$. Since the vertex is the midpoint between the focus $(a,b)$ and the intersection point,
$$3=\frac{a+\frac75}{2},\>\>\>\>\>1=\frac{b-\frac15}{2}$$
Then, solve for the focus $(a, b)$.