Yes, trace amounts of birth control medications, other medications, and household and industrial chemicals are really present in drinking water.
According to the US Geological Survey study Pharmaceuticals, Hormones, and Other Organic Wastewater Contaminants in U.S. Streams, 1999-2000: A National Reconnaissance
Birth control hormones found in US streams include:
ethynyl estradiol
19-norethisterone
and Mestranol
See also the Scientific American article Can Birth Control Hormones Be Filtered from the Water Supply?
> It is true that trace amounts of birth control and other medications—as well as household and industrial chemicals of every stripe—are present in many urban and suburban water supplies around the country