Generally, slots may be downward compatible but are not upward compatible. Of course, there are exceptions.
Since a module faster than the slot doesn't really provide any benefit, you should use a module that matches the best mutual mode supported by the far side - your ISP should be able to tell you which these are (possibly single-strand 1000BASE-BX or duplex 1000BASE-LX).
In no way can you link a 1G SFP port with a 10G-only counterpart, regardless of what module you try to fit.