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_Sex determination in Zea Mays_
Initially, all the flowers in the plant are perfect, ie they have both the male and the female flowers. This is followed by abortion of stamen or pistil resulting in unisexual flowers.
Which part of the flower undergoes abortion is determined according to the location of the flower. The florets in the tassel undergo the suppression of the pistil primordia resulting in staminate flowers, while the florets in the ear undergo suppression of stamen primordia resulting in female flowers.
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The hormone Gibberelic Acid seems to play a role in sex determination.
Source and other useful links :
1. Sex determination in Plants by CC Ainsworth.
2. Sex chromsomes in flowering plants
3. Sex determination in monoecious and dioecious plants
4. The sex determination process in maize