Remember than Pvu1 **cuts** in the middle of _Amp R_, and when you insert your gene you'll be disrupting its function, meaning that any transformed colonies will no longer be able to grow on Amp-containing media. This is why you want to cut with BamH1 - the disruption to the _Tet R_ gene is irrelevant, and it leaves Amp resistance in place.
The point of growing on antibiotic-containing media is to select for cells that have taken up your plasmid - cells that haven't can't grow.