1: As you rightly say, $(x−m)$ and $(x−n)∈[0−3]$ defines the support of $\phi_m(x)=\phi(x-m)$ and $\phi_n(x)=\phi(x-n)$. Which transforms to $x\in[m,m+3]$ resp. $x\in[n,n+3]$.
The integration goes over the whole of $\mathbb R$, but because of the supports and the multiplication, it reduces to the intersection of those intervalls. If the intersection is empty, the integral has automatically the value $0$.
The construction of the wavelet, in fact the orthogonality conditons on the coefficients of the wavelet filters, ensure that also the integrals for overlapping intervals give the value $0$ if $m\
e n$.
2: What are connection coefficients? The coefficients of the scaling sequence or the components of some linear operator in a wavelet basis?