You might want to peruse these online and see if they satisfy your needs and tastes:
* Differential Equations and Their Applications, M. Braun
* Differential Equations: A Dynamical Systems Approach (series) by J Hubbard and B West
There are also many excellent books of Nonlinear Equations and Chaos that include systems.
Certainly there are excellent notes and examples you can find online and I would imagine Opencourseware (like MIT). Lastly, if you have a college library, you might want to peruse it and see if there are books that suit your needs.