苦手 in describing dislike of people > > > Frankly speaking, I dislike her, because the first thing she does is to ask other people for help. I would like to better understand the quality of dislike expressed here with . Is it related to the other meaning of , perhaps as in "I am not good at handling her," and thus maybe less severe than ? How does this compare to in severity, nuance and politeness?

has a nuance which is something like 'not good at' 'weak point' 'hard to deal with', thereby hinting that your dislike for something/someone is not entirely their fault, but perhaps also partially yours.

This makes softer and safer than .