so this is a huge platter of food and I can imagine that how you would share this with you know a group of friends or family where do you begin how do you start well first things first you gotta get some in Jetta so this is the base for almost all the food that we eat it's a flatbread that's really spongy as you can tell it has sort of like a mildly sour taste to it but it it actually blends really well with the the heat of the sauces and then you use one hand usually we use our right hand so you got to be prepared to take that one hand it's kind of like an art you know so take it you take some sauce maybe you want to grab some vegetables but try not to get your fingers touching the sauces and then you just plop it into your mouth okay yeah so I'm gonna try to let this do as well but an insider's tip that I'd say for all the people that are going out too if you have in restaurants you might not know what to order of course talk to the staff Ethiopia's is great because they'll walk you through the process and and don't look your fingers that's another thing that's probably one of the things I'd say not to do do not make your fingers yeah don't do it not when you're sharing a platter you know I mean there's nothing closer than like eating off the same plate like feeding each other I don't think yeah you can get any closer to that so feeding each other tell me more about that I heard this is a custom yes it's called goorsha and it's something you do with people you love with your friends it could be like a mother to a child but you hand feed the person and there's like an art to it too you don't want to have your fingers in their mouth right right so you got to be able to like plop it lightly without getting bit we are now officially friends excellent so my last black beauty tip is to make sure that you order a round of coffee at the end there's a whole ceremony that takes place as you can see we've got the incense going we've got popcorn we have the Ethiopian coffee being freshly roasted and what you do is you smell it like you actually like approve of it so you go ahead and just kind of like wave it towards you know how good that is and then you get to enjoy a round of coffee after the one important thing to note is that you don't drink it on your own definitely do it with friends and that you never end at one cup there's three rounds also be ready let me know what you think that's good coffee mmm