Just so that someone answers this question so that the moderators have less work to do:
The fundamental reason why embryos don't get massacred by the maternal immune system is because of the placenta and several of its functions. Three mechanisms are:
1) Secretion of neurokinin B, which is also secreted by parasites to avoid detection of the host.
2) The placenta has developed immunoevasive actions from a virus. It creates a syncytium to limit transaction of mobile immune cells.
3)It only allows specific antibodies,(IgG) to enter and bind infection. (IgG being the only isotype here).
Yay for biology