Assuming that $X\sim \exp(\lambda)$ and using $Var(X) = EX^2 - E^2X$ we get $$ E(X^2|X>1) = Var(X|X>1)+E^2(X|X>1) = \frac{1}{\lambda^2} + (1 + \frac{1}{\lambda})^2 $$ where the memory-less property helps to deduce the shift in the expected value and that the variance remains the same.
I guess that your mistake stems from the fact that $X^2$ and $X$ are not the same r.v (different distributions).