Confluence is a property that a relation on a set may or may not have (as Willie Wong commented, what you wrote is a _definition_ , not a statement about some specific relation where you can check if the property holds or not).
Intuitively, as paw88789 comments, a relation is confluent if every time it branches off at some element $x$ to some elements $w_1$ and $w_2$, then it eventually closes back at a later element $z$. You might want to look up the relevant Wikipedia article for starters.