I have changed my mind. First factorize $12x^2+7xy-10y^2$ as the product of two factors $(ax+by)(cx+dy)$. It is just like factoring an ordinary quadratic.
Then bring in $e$ and $f$ like this: $(3x-2y+e)(4x+5y+f)$ The _linear terms_ are $e(4x+5y)+f(3x-2y)=13x+45y$ Collect the coefficients of $x$, so $4e+3f=13$, and also an equation for $y$.
You now have two equations in $e$ and $f$ to be satisfied at the same time. If you can solve them, you are done.
As a check, $ef$ should equal -3. If they don't, it was a hyperbola, not a pair of lines.