1. The identity map is holomorphic; it is not antiholomorphic.
2. If you pull a (p,q)-form by a holomorphic map, you get another (p,q)-form; but pulling it by an antiholomorphic map gives you a (q,p) form, an element of a different space. Etc. It's like comparing positive numbers to negative: as long as you stick to addition, there is a perfect symmetry, but once you start considering multiplication, positive numbers win.