Try this. And play around with it a bit.
echo -n "Press enter to use \"$in\" or enter a new value: "
read userInput
if [[ -n "$userInput" ]]
then
in=$userInput
fi
echo ... I will use $in.
Error-checking (`test -d`, etc.) is up to you....
`read` is a bash builtin, so you can get help for it with the command `help read` (watch out, because you'll probably get results for both `read` and `readarray`, so be careful which help text you're _read_ ing). Reading the help will show you additional options, like the ones @Costas suggests using:
read -i $in -p "Press enter to use \"$in\" or enter a new value: " in