If $\alpha$ is afine, let $(v_i, \alpha(v_i)$ be arbitrary tuple of vectors in $G_\alpha$. You want to show that $\sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i (v_i, \alpha(v_i))$ is in $G_\alpha$ for any $\lambda_i$ with $\sum \lambda_i=1$. But that is just $(\sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i v_i, \sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i \alpha(v_i))$. Now you can use the assumption that $\alpha$ is affine to finish.
Conversely, suppose $G_\alpha$ is affine. You want to see that for any tuple $v_i$ in $V$ the map $\alpha$ takes $\sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i v_i$ to $\sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i \alpha (v_i)$. That is just saying that $(\sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i v_i, \sum_{i=1}^k \lambda_i \alpha (v_i))$ is in $G_\alpha$. Now use that $(v_i, \alpha(v_i))$ are in $G_\alpha$ and $G_\alpha$ is affine.