For the first two, your logic should be as follows:
1) Let $x \in S$ be any given element. Clearly, $x$ is contained in the same subset as $x$, so by definition of $E$, $xEx$.
2) Let $x,y \in S$ be given, and suppose that $xEy$, i.e. that $x$ and $y$ are contained in the same subset. Then also $y$ and $x$ are contained in the same one, since simply mentioning them in a different order does not change anything. That is, $yEx$.
The third one you should also be able to realize by simply writing out what the assumptions $xEy$ and $yEz$ mean.