The mistake is $\mu(A)=|\int_Ah\,d\lambda |$. You need to go back to the definition of $|\
u |$. It is not defined by $|\
u|(A)=|\
u(A)|$. Rather, $|\
u |$ is defined as $\
u^++\
u^-$, where $\
u^+(A)=\
u(A\cap P)$ and $\
u^-(A)=-\
u(A\cap N)$, where $(P,N)$ is the Hahn decomposition of $\
u$.