This is less of an answer and more of a tip: use the sentence "I don't know" a lot. If the team asks a product owner what the tasks are to solve a problem, they can say "I don't know. I need you to help me figure that out." If the team doesn't know what all of the tasks are to complete a story, they can say "I don't know. I know I'll do Task A, but I don't know what comes next." No problem, they can add them in as they go. Are these too many backlog items? "I don't know, but it feels about right. Maybe one less." Knowledge and certainty are great if you have it, but if you don't, the most dangerous thing you can do is pretend like you do.