If you have indexed family $\\{A_i\\}_{i\in I}$, then you can write $A_i\cap A_j=\emptyset$, $i\
eq j$. If not, I don't see any problem in just stating: "Let $A,B,C,D$ be pairwise disjoint." This will probably be more clear than any notation you could come up with, including my own suggestion.