Consider the events:
* $X$ = a male is chosen
* $X^c$= a female is chosen
* $O$ = a good orator is chosen
* $O^c$ = a bad orator is chosen
Your assumptions are $p(X)=p(X^c)=\frac{1}{2}$, $p(O|X)=0.05$ and $p(O|X^c)=0.025$. The probability of selecting a male conditional on choosing a good orator is
\begin{equation*} p(X|O) = \dfrac{p(O|X)p(X)}{p(O|X)p(X)+p(O|X^c)p(X^c)} \end{equation*}
The probability of selecting a male conditional on not choosing a good orator is \begin{equation*} p(X|O^c) = \dfrac{p(O^c|X)p(X)}{p(O^c|X)p(X)+p(O^c|X^c)p(X^c)} \end{equation*}
As you see, there is no reason for the condition $p(X|O)+p(X|O^c)=1$ to hold. The valid condition is \begin{equation*} p(X|O)p(O) + p(X|O^c)p(O^c) = p(X) \end{equation*} In other words, the total probability of selecting a male equals the sum of conditional probabilities multiplied by the probability of the conditioning events.