hey what's that you are you me gentlemen knock it off were you flirting with me I'm at marina from alpha Emma today we are hooked that was weird right I am hooking all the single dudes up because today it's all about flirting how to do it without looking creepy because there is a fine line between coming across is charming and cute and looking like a guy that ultimately will be rifling through their underwear drawers searching for something to sniff alright flirting now we're going to start by discussing flirting from a real world perspective meaning you're actually flirting in person alright there is a person that you're flirting with not technology-based okay so no text messages no Facebook no Twitter no uh you there's a person and you're trying to communicate and get the action role in that way alright but I am a realist and I realized that technology has changed the game and has opened up a lot of possibilities and so at the end of this video I'm gonna be discussing and telling you about a super cool app that I found if you're single you definitely want to check it out let's get rolling there you are minding your own business maybe at a coffee shop maybe your school maybe you're at work maybe you're somewhere else it doesn't matter the fact is all of a sudden you spot her or him whatever a vision of angelic beauty or whatever the fact is you think they are hot and you want to make their acquaintance now most people would say the first step in flirting is making eye contact personally I think that's step number two step 1 look at their hand to see if they're wearing a ring if they are move on captain that ship has sailed but don't sweat it because in another few minutes undoubtedly a new ship without a captain will be by alright so they don't have a ring check now it's time to make eye contact essentially you want to purposely get caught checking them out this means glance in their direction repeatedly until you catch their eye alright so you purposely have to get caught checking them out alright so the way that I would do this is to actually just keep glancing over in their direction don't just stare this is creepy and people can tell when they're being stared at subtle little glances but be ready because once you catch their gaze a little smirk a head nod then look away yeah gentlemen look away all right go back to work go about your business and glance again when you catch their eye again though this is the time gentlemen to smile larger smile give them the grill smile like uh-huh you caught me how funny but on the inside that's a green light for game on time is of the essence it is time for you to make your next move play boy be bold go up and introduce yourself get up and confidently walk over not too fast not too slow none of the gangster limped no ah simply walk up and introduce yourself say hello now at this point you're probably feeling something like passing out and throwing up all at the same time and this is normal and at this point a lot of people freeze they're like and then they lay and they're like hey and you're probably not doing it like that but you people get there and they're like ah and they freeze their mind goes blank and so one of the keys to being successful at flirting as well as small talk is being prepared but I can't even talk being prepared prior to the approach you need to be prepared with your follow-up statement or question if not you're gonna stand there looking weird hey I'm Alfa uncomfortable and creepy the way I see it there's no better follow-up than a great compliment but gentlemen compliments are an art form there's definitely some finesse that goes into giving a compliment I actually did a video on the art of complimenting there's a link down in the description if you want to go check that out because what happens somebody gives you a compliment somebody gives me a cut you like them more immediately it doesn't matter if they just ran over your dog they gather like and you're like oh my god Sparky and they're like wow yo seriously I love that Jack you're like oh really uh Hank said my dog yeah they killed your dog but they have impeccable taste in outerwear and you don't hate them quite as bad gentlemen same thing holds true when you're flirting you give a compliment regardless of who it's to you are automatically going to be received better be brave be bold you go up to them and you give them a compliment when you compliment them you've got to look them in the eye don't be looking all around like I like your dress but under no circumstances should this first compliment be sexual in nature mmm girl that ass yeah creepy and if that actually works right if you actually went up somebody it was like girl bad ass and she's like oh really and it actually works that's not the first time it's happened and you're not the first person to ride that train all right so the conversations going now right you've complimented you've approached you have shown confidence which in and of itself is incredibly sexy and sets you apart from 95% of the other dudes out there all right so the conversations rolling the key now is not to wear out your welcome know when to exit now if you're gonna see this person again if it's a classmate a co-worker maybe the gym maybe you want to end the conversation the flirting there and pick it up next time but if you're not sure if you're ever gonna see this person again and you don't want to test fate it is time to pull up your big-boy panties gentlemen and ask them for their number all right so you asked for the number gentlemen what is the worst thing seriously the worst thing that can happen out of this interaction they say no and if they do or they're hesitant simply be courteous and exit stage left say okay well I understand it was great meeting you anyway I hope you have a great day and leave live it to flirt another day don't keep trying to sell yourself all right because the only thing less sexy than somebody who's insecure is somebody who seems desperate ultimately gentlemen it's a numbers game flirting all right the more you flirt the more people you interact with and put yourself out there too the more you're improving your odds of actually something great happening you know we weren't born being good at flirting all right it's something that takes practice it is a skill but you can develop that skill and the first few times you do it the first few times you approach somebody the your I'm telling you you're gonna feel butter like you're going to pass out it's horrible but the more you do it the more comfortable and better at it you become or you can use technology and use the app my buddy told me about my friend has been totally hooked on this app called hot or not and there used to be a website where you could vote if you thought somebody was hot or not or whatever and they rated people well here's the deal there is an app out there it's a free app and their links down below to both the Android and the Apple Store where you can actually download it the way that it works it's for single people I guess it could be for anybody but I would only recommend people that are single actually check it out you go and you register alright and you sign up and what happens is it starts showing you single people in your area that have also signed up for this app it's got like 50 million people so it's huge right you're going through all these pictures selecting yes I think they're hot no I don't think they're hot whatever you okay you can either get lost on this thing what happens they're also doing it alright the other people in the app are going through and selecting who they think are hot who they're not and if you guys match okay so if you think somebody's hot and they think you're hot then you get a notification that you guys can actually interact and you can start the process how's that that totally takes the guesswork out of the approach you get technology right where was all this stuff when I was single gentlemen it is amazing what is out there and this app when my buddy showed me and he was like yo I've been out with like three people he is loving it I couldn't believe it I think it is a genius idea and I know that there are others out there that may benefit from it so gentlemen there is link down below to the app and both stores that there is also a link to my video on the art of giving a compliment because my friends it is an art form gentlemen it has been fun go forth frolic and flirt