As you already noticed the $1$-loop quiver should be considered tame as for each dimension you only need one continous parameter to describe its finite dimensional representations. Similarly this is true for the $\tilde{A}_n$-quiver with cyclic orientation.
When one says that a quiver is tame one usually restricts to the case of acyclic quivers. In this case, as you mentioned there is the generalisation of Gabriel's theorem by Donovan-Freislich and Nazarova saying that these are exactly given by the affine Dynkin diagrams. Here, it is implicitly assumed that you don't take the cyclic orientation in type $\tilde{A}_n$.
One problem with the cyclic orientation is that there is in general no tame-wild dichotomy theorem for infinite-dimensional algebras. I'm not sure whether the case of quivers with oriented cycles has already been considered.