$$\binom{18}{4}\binom{2}{1}\binom{12}{7}+\binom{18}{5}\binom{2}{1}\binom{12}{6}+\binom{18}{6}\binom{2}{1}\binom{12}{5}$$ The first term standing for a choice of $4$ women out of the women where Alice and Betty are excluded, of $1$ out of the couple Alice/Betty and $7$ out of all men.
The second term standing for a choice of $5$ women out of the women where Alice and Betty are excluded, of $1$ out of the couple Alice/Betty and $6$ out of all men.
The third term standing for a choice of $6$ women out of the women where Alice and Betty are excluded, of $1$ out of the couple Alice/Betty and $5$ out of all men.