seemly
/ˈsi:mlɪ; `simlɪ/ / adj
(-ier, -iest) (dated or fml 旧或文) proper and suitable by the standards of polite society 恰当的, 得体的, 适宜的（合乎礼仪的）
seemly conduct, modesty 适度的举止、 谦虚
It would be more seemly to tell her after the funeral. 待葬礼过後再告诉她较合适.